I hear many ask "whyis my life the way it is?" The cold answer is ... Because you made it that way. We have spent years thinking so many thinks about ourselves and what we are and who we are etc etc. If you believe you are nothing and a waste of space then you will be. If you believe you are dumb, stupid, thick etc then you will be! BUT ! When you start believing you are worthy, better and loved, watch your world change around you. You will be worthy, better and loved. When you spend you day believing in what is right and good, just watch your world change, you will find what is right and good.
Becarefull what you spend your time thinking. Think as you would love to live and watch your world change.
Think loving thoughts and recieve loving thoughts. Think kindness and recieve kindness. Think to help others and recieve help from others.
We do not do the the world or ourselves any favours by NOT shining our brightest light.
Let your light shine. And watch the world shine on you.
Some of the biggest problems that exist in our lives are that we do not understand how or why we are, the way we are. Through my 7 key, program, you will learn and easily understand how you can take control of your whole life by first understanding, then making different decisions. Through this, understand how everyone else works, How life works, What you want How do you get it, Daily Foundations, Energy Dynamics, Learn to ask the right questions and a personal bonus Relationship Questionnaire.
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
Where do my thoughts come from?
Now this is a great question. Key 1, in my book is all about your thoughts. So I will give you an excerpt from key 1 right here to get you going. Hows that? :)
Now, in recent years our own scientists have been confirming this same fact; that mind affects matter, and your thoughts will affect what you experience in this world.
Thought is creative and what you continually think about will expand! The universe does not care if it's negative or positive, it will simply help you to expand whatever it is you are continuing to think! SO! Be careful what you think! The universe only says, "Yes" to your every thought.
Why be careful? Because when you end up getting what you have spent so much time thinking about... you then have to take responsibility for it. If you sit down, close your eyes for five minutes and try and make your
mind a blank you will find how impossible that is. There is a continuous flow of thoughts passing through your mind every moment. Therefore, am I saying that all these thoughts are going to manifest in your life.
Not at all. The principle is that what you focus on the most is what expands. It is those thoughts that you continually hold and reinforce in your mind on a daily basis that are going to manifest. As you will learn
here, there are layers of thought existing at the same time in your mind, from the thought of the moment, to opinions on different subjects, to deep core beliefs that represent how you see the world. Take a moment
to think about someone or something in your life. Now what have you got? The thought is nothing more than a picture that you hold in your mind.
Thoughts are pictures held in your mind.
In psychological terms we talk about your self image. An image is a picture, so your self-image is simply the picture you hold in your mind about yourself. How you see yourself in the world, and how you see the world itself. If you see yourself as all alone in a big frightening world, where everyone is out to get you, then that is exactly what you will experience in your own unique way, like it or not. If you see yourself as successful, blessed by life and safe in the world, then that is what you will experience. If you see the opposite in your mind then that is what you will end up experiencing. Thought is creative, and will manifest those conditions
in the outside world that match the nature of your thoughts. Think about that?
"When you cease to see the wonder of every day life... then everyday life ceases to remain wonderful"
The natural tendency for most is to focus on what is happening outside them and blame that, for the way their lives are. It takes honesty, courage and guts to turn that around and accept responsibility for the self image you have been creating, holding and projecting to the outside world all your life. Have you ever wondered why some people treat you like they do?
However if you do not do not accept this challenging responsibility then you will never be truly free, or successful. As you accept the principle that what you focus on expands then you can see that behind all the
conditions of your life there are deeply held thoughts - thoughts that most people are totally unaware of. Thoughts, that have created your reality. Thoughts that are at this very moment creating your very next moment. People often find it difficult to get clear about the deep thoughts they need to or can change. Simply look at your life - there you have your entire range of core thoughts and belief's made real for the whole world to see. Do you like and accept what others can see in you? Are you aware of what they CAN see in you? Better to be clear about this. Just because YOU may be unaware of the thoughts that make you, you, doesn't mean others cannot see them. Because of this the world becomes your mirror. The world will reflect
back to you exactly what you live inside your mind. Another way of expressing it is: everything is energy, including thought. All physical matter that you could be aware of is nothing more than a sea of energy that has been condensed to a vibrational level that makes it appear solid. That idea that matter is solid is just the delusion of the senses. It is all energy created from thought - and you have the power to CHANGE thought! Therefore you have the power to change your reality.
SO. Anyway. I wanted to show you how important it is to be aware of that the plain fact that your thoughts are creative. Be careful what you think about. !!!
Now, in recent years our own scientists have been confirming this same fact; that mind affects matter, and your thoughts will affect what you experience in this world.
Thought is creative and what you continually think about will expand! The universe does not care if it's negative or positive, it will simply help you to expand whatever it is you are continuing to think! SO! Be careful what you think! The universe only says, "Yes" to your every thought.
Why be careful? Because when you end up getting what you have spent so much time thinking about... you then have to take responsibility for it. If you sit down, close your eyes for five minutes and try and make your
mind a blank you will find how impossible that is. There is a continuous flow of thoughts passing through your mind every moment. Therefore, am I saying that all these thoughts are going to manifest in your life.
Not at all. The principle is that what you focus on the most is what expands. It is those thoughts that you continually hold and reinforce in your mind on a daily basis that are going to manifest. As you will learn
here, there are layers of thought existing at the same time in your mind, from the thought of the moment, to opinions on different subjects, to deep core beliefs that represent how you see the world. Take a moment
to think about someone or something in your life. Now what have you got? The thought is nothing more than a picture that you hold in your mind.
Thoughts are pictures held in your mind.
In psychological terms we talk about your self image. An image is a picture, so your self-image is simply the picture you hold in your mind about yourself. How you see yourself in the world, and how you see the world itself. If you see yourself as all alone in a big frightening world, where everyone is out to get you, then that is exactly what you will experience in your own unique way, like it or not. If you see yourself as successful, blessed by life and safe in the world, then that is what you will experience. If you see the opposite in your mind then that is what you will end up experiencing. Thought is creative, and will manifest those conditions
in the outside world that match the nature of your thoughts. Think about that?
"When you cease to see the wonder of every day life... then everyday life ceases to remain wonderful"
The natural tendency for most is to focus on what is happening outside them and blame that, for the way their lives are. It takes honesty, courage and guts to turn that around and accept responsibility for the self image you have been creating, holding and projecting to the outside world all your life. Have you ever wondered why some people treat you like they do?
However if you do not do not accept this challenging responsibility then you will never be truly free, or successful. As you accept the principle that what you focus on expands then you can see that behind all the
conditions of your life there are deeply held thoughts - thoughts that most people are totally unaware of. Thoughts, that have created your reality. Thoughts that are at this very moment creating your very next moment. People often find it difficult to get clear about the deep thoughts they need to or can change. Simply look at your life - there you have your entire range of core thoughts and belief's made real for the whole world to see. Do you like and accept what others can see in you? Are you aware of what they CAN see in you? Better to be clear about this. Just because YOU may be unaware of the thoughts that make you, you, doesn't mean others cannot see them. Because of this the world becomes your mirror. The world will reflect
back to you exactly what you live inside your mind. Another way of expressing it is: everything is energy, including thought. All physical matter that you could be aware of is nothing more than a sea of energy that has been condensed to a vibrational level that makes it appear solid. That idea that matter is solid is just the delusion of the senses. It is all energy created from thought - and you have the power to CHANGE thought! Therefore you have the power to change your reality.
SO. Anyway. I wanted to show you how important it is to be aware of that the plain fact that your thoughts are creative. Be careful what you think about. !!!
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Learn How to Learn!
As we go through life we learn a heck of a lot about a heck of a lot. Our parents teach us many things and the schools we attend teach us many things. Our friends, workmates, partners, children and many others along the way teach us many things. Yet throughout all this, where did we learn how to learn? Did anyone actually teach us "how" to learn?
Generally no! No-one actually taught us how to learn. We somehow pick this up along the way. Throughout my growing up years I recall non of these people teaching me the art of "how" to learn. Infact learning was one of those things I learned to hate. All it did was remind me of those school days where I hated to be. The teachers I lothed. Oh and the many unpleasant things that happened at school along the way.
So learning was not very high on my "cool lets do it" list. When it came to a point where I had to learn some new thing it was more a case of "yea great, another chance to find out how dumb I am". Of course this did nothing to actually help me "learn" anything. When it came to times where I actually "did" want to learn something, this was a huge hurdle to over come. So I had to change my entire view on learning. Lets face it, the school I went to was at the time I was there a pretty rough school. Myself and many of my friends were more concerned with "surviving school, not learning anything. And what I was learning I remember thinking "why the hell do I need to know this stuff?". I have no interest in what they do in some other country I never heard of, or the chemical breakdown of some compound I never heard of or even wanted to hear about.
You see they did not teach any subjects at school that I wanted to know about. There was nothing about life, the universe, beliefs, why am I who I am. I wanted to know why I thought the way I did, why do I feel like I do, why do some of the other kids do what they do, why is he so tough, and why was I feeling so lost and weak? Hmmm I don't recall any of that in class 4, in 2nd period with any of my teachers.
The point there is that nothing is interesting unless IM interested ! Ok so I was the odd kid out, I was in the few who wanted to know more about deep life. So as I say, untill they came up with subject matter I was interested in then I simply was not interested.
Over the years I also found that what I wanted to know about was somewhat a forbidden topic. Hmmmm. I found it very difficult to find those who would teach me what I wanted to know about. I had deeper life questions. Oh but now I discovered something else ! NOW I wanted to learn :) They more I was told to stay way from all that then the more I wanted to know about.
SO. Part of this ability to actually learn was to know what I wanted to learn about. hmmm interesting I thought. I saw some going off to university to learn there trade or whatever it was they to learn. And for many it was teir choice to go. This made me think also. Hmmm so they actually wanted to. No one forced them to go. Yea now all I have to do as excited as I was to learn what I wanted to was find where to learn it.
The ability to learn is in all of us, yet the way and the what to learn is not. At a basic level we learn out of a need to learn, for saftey or protection. At school we learned to fight to protect ourselves or to talk my way out of some situation. I had to.
The actual interest in what is being learned plays a huge role. So I sat down and thought long and hard about what it was I wanted to learn about. Wow. what a long list. Now my frustrating next few years trying to find those who would teach me what I wanted to know.
The actual DRIVE to learn was beginning. The NEED for me to know was part of the art of learning !
Finding those with the wisdom I searched for was an inspiration. The actual desire to learn what they knew was the one thing I found that lifted my ability to actually learn what I was being taught. My brain was being ignited and inspired by information I felt I needed.
NOW I was taking on new information and learning new things at a great rate. Now there is another part here that is very important. !!!!!!!!
At school, (well, the school I went to atleast) the teachers themselves were a big part of the problem. They were not .....Inspireing teachers. They did not make what they were teaching interesting or facinating as I saw no "Passion". So why would I be passionate about it either? They were boring, it was boring, and so I was bored. I found that the teachers I was going to, actaually had a passion for what they were teaching.
So here are some good things to understand about how to learn.
A) Find out what you want to learn. Be specific about it. Define it. Be very very clear about WHAT it is.
B) Develop in your self a passion for what it is and go find it.
C) Find teachers who have a passion for what they teach.
It is your passion that will drive to to keep going till you find the right way, the right people, the right method and the right information. If you find youraself fading, then maybe what you are seeking is not really what you are searching for. Search you. Search your soul. What is it you really want to know.
What is you passion? What is it that will drive you, get you up in the morning, make you feel you have achieved today? Find this passion and live it. THIS in itsself will catapult your learning ability to new heights.
There is much more to learning how to learn, :) But it would make this post far to long :) I will be adding many more topics as I go here so please enjoy.
Generally no! No-one actually taught us how to learn. We somehow pick this up along the way. Throughout my growing up years I recall non of these people teaching me the art of "how" to learn. Infact learning was one of those things I learned to hate. All it did was remind me of those school days where I hated to be. The teachers I lothed. Oh and the many unpleasant things that happened at school along the way.
So learning was not very high on my "cool lets do it" list. When it came to a point where I had to learn some new thing it was more a case of "yea great, another chance to find out how dumb I am". Of course this did nothing to actually help me "learn" anything. When it came to times where I actually "did" want to learn something, this was a huge hurdle to over come. So I had to change my entire view on learning. Lets face it, the school I went to was at the time I was there a pretty rough school. Myself and many of my friends were more concerned with "surviving school, not learning anything. And what I was learning I remember thinking "why the hell do I need to know this stuff?". I have no interest in what they do in some other country I never heard of, or the chemical breakdown of some compound I never heard of or even wanted to hear about.
You see they did not teach any subjects at school that I wanted to know about. There was nothing about life, the universe, beliefs, why am I who I am. I wanted to know why I thought the way I did, why do I feel like I do, why do some of the other kids do what they do, why is he so tough, and why was I feeling so lost and weak? Hmmm I don't recall any of that in class 4, in 2nd period with any of my teachers.
The point there is that nothing is interesting unless IM interested ! Ok so I was the odd kid out, I was in the few who wanted to know more about deep life. So as I say, untill they came up with subject matter I was interested in then I simply was not interested.
Over the years I also found that what I wanted to know about was somewhat a forbidden topic. Hmmmm. I found it very difficult to find those who would teach me what I wanted to know about. I had deeper life questions. Oh but now I discovered something else ! NOW I wanted to learn :) They more I was told to stay way from all that then the more I wanted to know about.
SO. Part of this ability to actually learn was to know what I wanted to learn about. hmmm interesting I thought. I saw some going off to university to learn there trade or whatever it was they to learn. And for many it was teir choice to go. This made me think also. Hmmm so they actually wanted to. No one forced them to go. Yea now all I have to do as excited as I was to learn what I wanted to was find where to learn it.
The ability to learn is in all of us, yet the way and the what to learn is not. At a basic level we learn out of a need to learn, for saftey or protection. At school we learned to fight to protect ourselves or to talk my way out of some situation. I had to.
The actual interest in what is being learned plays a huge role. So I sat down and thought long and hard about what it was I wanted to learn about. Wow. what a long list. Now my frustrating next few years trying to find those who would teach me what I wanted to know.
The actual DRIVE to learn was beginning. The NEED for me to know was part of the art of learning !
Finding those with the wisdom I searched for was an inspiration. The actual desire to learn what they knew was the one thing I found that lifted my ability to actually learn what I was being taught. My brain was being ignited and inspired by information I felt I needed.
NOW I was taking on new information and learning new things at a great rate. Now there is another part here that is very important. !!!!!!!!
At school, (well, the school I went to atleast) the teachers themselves were a big part of the problem. They were not .....Inspireing teachers. They did not make what they were teaching interesting or facinating as I saw no "Passion". So why would I be passionate about it either? They were boring, it was boring, and so I was bored. I found that the teachers I was going to, actaually had a passion for what they were teaching.
So here are some good things to understand about how to learn.
A) Find out what you want to learn. Be specific about it. Define it. Be very very clear about WHAT it is.
B) Develop in your self a passion for what it is and go find it.
C) Find teachers who have a passion for what they teach.
It is your passion that will drive to to keep going till you find the right way, the right people, the right method and the right information. If you find youraself fading, then maybe what you are seeking is not really what you are searching for. Search you. Search your soul. What is it you really want to know.
What is you passion? What is it that will drive you, get you up in the morning, make you feel you have achieved today? Find this passion and live it. THIS in itsself will catapult your learning ability to new heights.
There is much more to learning how to learn, :) But it would make this post far to long :) I will be adding many more topics as I go here so please enjoy.
New Book Release. Truth Is Freedom.
Well its happened. I did it. After 10 years since the beginning of writing, my book is now up for sale and world wide release. Has to be one of the most rewarding points of my life.
From constant prodding to get it out there its now done. The first book is the basics of how to understand and live the best you. I still live by these principles and still teach them. And lets face it, its not that im saying anything new ! Just a new way of saying the same things that have been taught for thousands of years. All Im doing here is telling it the way I see it. Truthfully and honestly. The Kiwi way.
Thanks to the wonder of POD (Print On Demand) Xlibris has helped emensley in the porject and I have to say they have certainly lived up to what they say. I needed to get this book out there. It is writen as I speak. Yes I know ive been told by so many that hmmm you cant write like that and you cant say things like that!
Well tough. This is the way I teach and the way I speak so I decided that this is the way I will write to. Well it seems that that is what people liked and wanted to hear so I am pleased. It is now out there and doing well. Pheeewww Now onto the next book :)
From constant prodding to get it out there its now done. The first book is the basics of how to understand and live the best you. I still live by these principles and still teach them. And lets face it, its not that im saying anything new ! Just a new way of saying the same things that have been taught for thousands of years. All Im doing here is telling it the way I see it. Truthfully and honestly. The Kiwi way.
Thanks to the wonder of POD (Print On Demand) Xlibris has helped emensley in the porject and I have to say they have certainly lived up to what they say. I needed to get this book out there. It is writen as I speak. Yes I know ive been told by so many that hmmm you cant write like that and you cant say things like that!
Well tough. This is the way I teach and the way I speak so I decided that this is the way I will write to. Well it seems that that is what people liked and wanted to hear so I am pleased. It is now out there and doing well. Pheeewww Now onto the next book :)
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